If you've been away for a bit and are confused, I am over at
cakeface now, not here.
I was going to leave this fully operational and just private everything - I started that process - but then it occured to me that it's massively easier to leave everything as it is, which is friends-locked, and then just defriend everyone. Hurrah!
I have just done this, so if you're all bzuh about the defriending, no worries, you've just been a bit sleepy. I'm still around, although I'm restricting my friends list enormously due to time and privacy issues and may not friend everyone, lovely as you all are. So give us a nod at
cakeface, or my email is gardenhart@gmail.com.
Take care, guys.